
Most of you already know this, but we are having another baby! We are due September 23rd and are excited to add to our cute family! We always do something fun to announce the pregnancy to family so this go around we went with a Valentine's Day theme. I found cute little heart boxes and filled each box with a word that spelled out, "We're Having A Baby September 2009, The Felstead's." I then put all 7 boxes in a gift bag with tissue and a note explaining that their valentine had a special message for them and that they needed to unscramble the hearts to find out who the gift was from. My mom took this picture after she unscrambled her Valentine message. It turned out cute and it was a fun way to announce our exciting news. Since this baby will make 4, many of you have questions and comments (interesting comments) reguarding the baby and myself. So here are the answers to some of your questions and comments.
The most common question is...Are you hoping for a girl?
Answer: Have you SEEN my boys? Happy and healthy are the goal right now!
Was this baby planned?
Answer: YES! Call us crazy but we didn't feel like our family was finished even as we were bringing Ledger home from the hospital. We always knew there would be another.
Do you want more after this?
Answer: Four will probably be just perfect for us!
How are you feeling?
Answer: The same as I did with the other 3! (Draw your conclusions from there as to what I'm having!) No morning, afternoon or evening sickness! Can't keep my head up I'm so tired right now, but good otherwise!
Have you been to the doctor yet?
Answer: YES! I am 12 weeks along and went for my first appt last week. The good news is that there is only 1 baby, the bad new is that because I will be 35 in June, I am at a much higher risk of having a baby with "problems". I will go for a neucotransperency test,
(NT) (have no idea how to spell this) next week. This test can only be done between 11 and 13 weeks. It measures the thickness of the back of the baby's neck and skull combined with my blood to give a number that shows if this baby is at risk for having Downs, Spina Bifida, Etc. Etc. Apparently children with these birth defects have thicker necks and skulls, who knew! After that I go for a Level 2 ultrasound which shows much more then just the normal ultrasound. Oh by the way, if that NT Test comes back questionable, I will go for futher testing including a possible amnio. Yes I'm freaking out but as my Mom keeps reminding me, "The baby has been made, there is nothing you can do about it now!" STOP WORRYING!!! I feel like I'm 90 and pregnant!
Are your boys excited?
Answer: YES! Every morning Brody comes in and asks, "Mom, did your tummy grow last night?" He then asks me to lift my shirt up so he can see. He giggles and touches my tummy. By the way, they all think I'm having a BOY! They hope it's a boy because, "All girls do is scream!" I guess they are right about that huh!
Where are you going to put this baby?
Answer: We'll probably have to bunk Brody and Case, Ledger can have his own big boy room and the new baby will go in the "baby room!"
Are you CRAZY?
Answer: YEP!